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seems to me from reading all these leadership articles that I have a lot to
learn in the aspect of leadership itself. I believe everyone has a different approach
to leadership, but the hard part is understanding what kind of leadership to
portray in certain instances. From reading and personal experience I believe
you must be versatile and very flexible in the leadership world, due to the
different personality traits of your followers and the environment in which you
work. Also I believe you must know how to follow as much as you know how to
lead, maybe even more so on the “following” part.
According
to the test results I pretty much bombed the test when it comes to the
leadership abilities that are specific to the survey. I had to ask myself does
that mean I will be a bad leader? Then I think of all the times that it was my
job to lead and I think I guess I did alright. Didn’t I? One of the test stated
I scored high in the introvert section of the test. I always knew that I was
kind of a loner and kept to myself, but I did that when around new people that I
didn’t know that well. If I hung around my lifelong friends then I am more open
and relaxed when socializing inside my group. I guess this is considered a
trait of introvertism. And I can accept that and I will try and put myself in
more situations to where I go out and seek a conversation with a stranger or
colleague that I don’t know more personally. I must learn to have a better
understanding and stronger people skills and these articles helped me realize I
have a lot of work to do in order to be a balanced leader and member of a team.
I
read a quote once but I can’t remember from where. It stated “To know where
your going, you must know where you have come from”. Most of us were not born
into leadership, at least I know I wasn’t. We were born into being a follower.
If you take into account the whole nature verses nurture concept, you can see
leadership and following in the same aspect. We grow up following whatever
guardian raised us from a child to the person we are today. Along the way we
learned from our environment around us and continue to grow even today from new
experiences and mistakes made. I believe this is where the leadership ability
evolves from follower to leader.
Very nice read. I believe following skills are very essential to becoming a great leader as well. In my personal experience, I have always learned the most when I had an excellent mentor to guide me. In regards to the nature vs. nurture part of leadership skills, I do believe some are born with natural talent for the task, as people are born with natural talent for many things. However, I also believe it's a very rare trait, and for the rest of us having a great mentor to help show us the way is an essential aspect of becoming a great leader.
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To me it sounds like you know, or are starting to realize, what kind of leader you want to be. I think that is the starting block for what makes a good leader. One that I wish I had when I was told I was going to be a team leader in the army. Authority with out a goal is useless. While having a goal and earning the respect of those under you through you actions is the basis for respect to be earned. Without respect there is no leading there is only orders, I strongly believe that respect is where you get others that want to do what you ask of them. I think you will earn the respect of those that you are appointed over.
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